This title cracks me up.
I have given advice most of my life. Now, in my 60’s, I have realized it is unwise to do all that advice-giving. Listening is a much better course of action! More loving too.
Why? Well, because people actually learn more by listening to themselves process stuff. But, if you are of a mind, I have some articles on here that aren’t too bad in the way of advice. (Wish I could put a grinning emoji here)
Here is one I find amazing: On Thinking Well.
Here is another on Holding Onto Something.
I don’t know… Do you take advice when it is given? I DO! I actually listen when people see something in me that I can’t see. Except when it is my mother, (seen here whispering to my mother-in-law) or sometimes my husband.
Truthfully though, Transformation is the end desire for all good advice.
I don’t know! Maybe you will listen if you read something here that resonates with you. Try! REALLY MAKE AN EFFORT! To listen to the voice of another that may not be in total agreement with the voice in your head.
HERE’S S0ME FREE ADVICE …
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